Speaking as a woman in a heterosexual relationship: "If I can manipulate you, and get you to do things that you don't believe in, get you to say things you don't believe in- well then so can anyone else. And so I'm not safe with you." - Chris Ryan, Tangentially Speaking Podcast, Episode 461 at 35 minutes in. (https://chrisryanphd.com/461-roma-44-the-way-of-the-inferior-man/)